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An Asexual Perspective on Sex Dreams

I’ve been wondering about asexual perspectives on dreams for a while now, so was very excited when Constance Bougie introduced the topic. More specifically, I wanted to examine asexual perspectives on sex dreams. According to AVEN, the majority of asexual people do not have sex dreams in the traditional sense,…

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The Five Stages of Sexual Attraction

After reading Understanding Asexuality, I wanted to share a small section of the book that I found interesting. Bogaert calls this “The A, B, C, and D’s of Sex”. Though I wasn’t too keen on the name so I decided to call it “The Five Stages of Sexual Attraction”. The…

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How to Use the Konmari Method in Online Dating

If you haven’t heard of the konmari method then you must be living under a rock! It all started ten years ago with Marie Kondo’s “Life Changing Magic”. It’s the first self-help book I ever read, and to this day it’s still the one that has had the biggest impact.…

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How to Tell if You’re Asexual

Have you ever met someone and instantly felt the urge to have sex with them? If your answer was not an immediate and definite yes, then you are asexual. Congratulations! Believe it or not, finding out is actually the easy part. The hard part is coming to terms with it.…

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Bringing Awareness to the Asexual Community

I don’t know about you, but I kind of miss the “good old days” of the internet. Back when people could actually be authentic and not have to censor themselves constantly. But technology has changed so much in the past few years that it’s become increasingly difficult to share something…

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